A genuine discourse doesn't includ repeatedly telling the same person both what the thought and what they did regardless of what they say. Neither is holding the other perspective in contempt without ever giving it significant consideration.
I still come here because I love the actual game, have a fondness for the Pats, am fascinated by BB's approach, system and constant development and have the utmost respect and affection for Tom Brady, both as a person, and as the greatest QB of all time. I'm not watching the sport I love because of the corruption that's making it onto the field. It's much more subtle and smaller than this massive scheme that you make it out to be, and often isn't successful. That said, it's very presence has stopped me from watching the game I love.
I also still come here because many of the discussions I read and participate in here have are tremendous sources of insight for me. Not only have there been many instances where someone provided great information or showed me I was very wrong on an important topic, I have also gained tremendous insight from serious perspective taking on opposing viewpoints.
Sure, I frequently still disagree with said viewpoint, but have often gleaned valuable insight, awareness of nuance and even an greater understanding of human nature, including my own, from the attempt. This board has also aided me in identifying a number of personal flaws and has led to what I consider significant, positive transformation. Obviously I have a long way to go in overcoming many of these flaws, but I'm aware of them now and actively making progress in overcoming them. I truly try to return the favor to the board, which is why I sometimes come off like Dr. Phil.