And if Ryan appeared in Playgirl, there would also be repercussions (not the least of which, I'm sure, would be from the readers). But this is different, nobody ever showed that he intended to have his weird little video uploaded. If his wife did it on her own, it can't be his bad judgment (likewise for his wife in some, umm, unladylike poses).
But my real point has nothing to do with Ryan, what's sadder than Ryan are Pats fans being hypocrites. Ryan embarrasses Ryan, maybe he embarrasses the Jets, but stupid jackasses who happen to root for the Pats embarrass me.
I should start a Wall of Shame. Track people's comments about illegal hits, scandals, biased officiating, etc when it goes in our favor, and those same people's comments when similar things go in someone else's favor. I have a feeling those people have a warped sense of what's "fair", and possibly deep-seeded issues with their mothers.