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I agree with everything you said here, but is a difference in preferences/biases 'wrong', when not effected upon? So trans people make you somewhat uncomfortable, and you're mature enough to realize you shouldn't let that affect the way you treat them. So you treat them well, and even make sincere efforts to change your mindset, though not thoroughly successfully.
Is it right for me to, despite the soundness of your actions, shame you for not being the paragon of tolerance, label you a bigot, etc? Live and let live, right? If you're fair to another person (regardless of their race/orientation etc) by every objective and observable measure, then what right and what business do they have to change what you believe? You said it yourself, your biases are your own problem. So as long as your biases are not negatively affecting someone else, then what's anyone's problem?
No one has uttered a word that conflicts with this.