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Incognito suspended indefinitely by Dolphins

It's a general rule for communication problems. Since other Miami teammates don't have the same problem with Incognitio, we know there are some Martin-specific elements to all this, and so I'm guessing the general rule applies.

However, I'd be shocked if it turned out that the fault was remotely close to being equal. Incognitio is the bad guy here.

Maybe Martin has mixed race parents, and that bothers Incognito.
Maybe Martin has a degree from Stanford and that bothers Incognito.
Maybe Martin is gay and that bothers Incognito.
 
Maybe Martin has mixed race parents, and that bothers Incognito.
Maybe Martin has a degree from Stanford and that bothers Incognito.
Maybe Martin is gay and that bothers Incognito.

Of course maybes can go both ways.

Maybe Martin was a bad teammate and drew Incognitos attention (and Incognito then acted inappropriately)
Maybe Martin lacked effort and commitment to the team (and Incognito then acted inappropriately)
Maybe the entire OL group was angry at Martin for skipping OTAs and Incognito's call was due to that (and Incognito then acted inappropriately)

Speculation is speculation.
 
Wait a second - - are you serious? Those terms you list are official terms. They are categories. It is like calling a nurse - - "nurse"! Or a rookie "rookie".

I'm not sure "Plebe", "Selectee", "Candidate" and "Initiate" = "Half N****"

You're right, I never was in the military. However, I do have up-close experience with the military, having worked in the late 80's- early 90's as a TS/SCI SIGINT Analyst with the NSA at Fort Meade in an office that was 50% military.

And I can categorically state to you that, while "Plebe", Selectee", etc. was perfectly fine addresses for these guys, "Half-N****" was not.

That's what you got from reading the post - are you serious?

Reviewing what I actually typed, first, you claim to know the military with some ridiculous, conclusory post, and that is why I replied. That is the only quoted portion from your post. Again, test your reading comprehension before offering your shock and amazement to the delight of the readers.

Second, I offered you two actual definitions of hazing and a general discussion of that subject in the context of the military as to how it can be difficult to draw lines in discussions of appropriate and inappropriate behavior. The military post-1992 has spent substantial time and effort addressing the subject, which was why I originally offered the discussion. Also apparently lost on you, as you drone on about a subject I never really discussed in offering the brilliant observation as to how racial terms are not comparable to status terms. Give yourself a gold star for that earth-shaking contribution. Too bad that wasn't based on what I stated, but I'm sure it needed to be said for some reason.

In the end, my point was you are talking out your arse on a subject you literally know nothing about - the military. Now, you offer additional pearls of wisdom on how people are "perfectly fine" with these terms, having never lived a first-year at the service academy or participated in any initiation ceremony in the military (by the way, look up 'Plebe' - it means common, vulgar, etc. - too bad we in the Navy don't educate our people on traditions - but hey, it's official so shouldn't be read as demeaning). As you apparently fail to grasp the point of my original response, and appear incapable of grasping the breadth of your own ignorance on the topic by compounding it here, try using google and searching 'suicides' and "service academies." If you can't find the answer to why your conclusory statement is patently ignorant, IM me and I will enlighten you. Or keep assuming you somehow know the unknowable, that you understand the military life having never lived it and keep saying how life is swell for all in these environments, from your desk vantage of course.

I do not demean the contribution of civilian support and accept its valuable contributions, but it is important to note that, whatever you believe you were, civilians do not live the military life. Do not assume you know what the military life is based on time sitting at a desk on post as a civilian, or having heard stories from those in the service. You don't. I was trying to politely correct you on your military statement, but now let's make this clear for purposes of this discussion to establish where we are coming from in our respective positions on this topic. Me? ROTC 1987, commissioned 1991. You? Desk. Me? 10 years active duty and 10+ years reserve to the present day with deployments to every major conflict in the 1990s and in the current conflict. You? Desk. With that said, I will politely ask that you stop offering generalized statements on a topic you obviously know nothing about. The more you discuss it, the more foolish you sound. If you want to discuss this further, feel free to send me a message and I will explain it to you to your heart's content.
 
Never would have thought of Incognito and Ricky Williams being allies.

Ricky Williams: 'Maybe Martin doesn't belong in NFL' - NFL.com


"How is bullying something that's even mentioned regarding the NFL?" Williams wondered. "Because that's kind of what we're taught to do -- at least on the field -- is to bully the guy across from us so we can win the football game.

"It's kind of what we're subjected to on a day-to-day basis that most people will never be able to understand. ... What we're required to do physically, mentally and emotionally for the course of a season is astronomical; it's amazing. And I'm not saying that it's bad. I'm saying it just really speaks to what it takes to be a professional football player. And to me there's no room to play the victim or to be bullied or to even have that discussion when it comes to the NFL. If you're having that discussion, it just means that maybe you don't belong in the NFL."

Williams should know. Nine years ago, he came to his own realization that he didn't belong in the NFL.

"I think I can relate and I can speak on this because I was at a point where I was done with the NFL and I needed to take a break," Williams said. "But unlike Jonathan, I didn't have to find a scapegoat or someone to blame. ... I didn't have to bring anyone else down when I found out that I just couldn't handle what I was going through at the time."

Williams went through many of the same experiences as Martin early in his career, but emphasized that he never took it as a personal attack.

"I just understood that's the nature of the game," Williams explained. "When I came in as a rookie, they called me 'Ricky Weirdo.' And they busted my balls and they gave me a hard time, but I just laughed because it was funny. ... If someone sent me those messages, I would send a text back and call him a redneck and put 'lol.' To me, situations that you got yourself into, you got yourself into. It falls on you to find a way to get yourself out. And I'm not judging the way he got himself out of the situation. I actually think it's quite brilliant.

"There's all these text messages and these voice messages. It takes some awareness and some planning and some orchestration to actually save those and record those. ... (Martin) is fighting (Incognito), but he's just doing it in his own way. If we're going to talk about the story as a hazing story -- which doesn't fit -- or as a bullying story, it's really a great example of the kid that is 'getting bullied' fighting back in his own way. ... I think they're both victims. I think the truth is never going to come out. One guy has a paid vacation. And one guy has a vacation that's not paid right now."

Asked about the racist language allegedly used by Incognito in text and voice messages, Williams took exception to the notion that societal standards apply to a locker room setting.

"It's not inflammatory if it's your family," Williams said. "When you look at a team, especially two guys that play the same position, and you really understand how much time they spend together, you can't put it in the context that you would put it outside of a family setting. ... If you had a tape recorder in the locker room, you would hear a lot of stuff that wouldn't fly in the media. A football team, the NFL, it's a fraternity. ... It's not fair and it's not right for people on the outside to judge and try to figure out what's going on on the inside because most of the people on the outside wouldn't last a week on an NFL team."

In Williams' experience, Incognito is not a racist. He also believes coach Joe Philbin's responsibility was to step in only when the actions of the other linemen affected Martin's play.

"The locker room, we keep coaches out for a reason. It's our space," Williams emphasized. "When I look at the issue, it's not about racism, it's not about bullying, it's not about hazing. It's about a lack of leadership in that locker room. ... And this is just one of the ways in which it's manifested."​
 
Me? ROTC 1987, commissioned 1991. You? Desk. Me? 10 years active duty and 10+ years reserve to the present day with deployments to every major conflict in the 1990s and in the current conflict. You? Desk. With that said, I will politely ask that you stop offering generalized statements on a topic you obviously know nothing about. The more you discuss it, the more foolish you sound. If you want to discuss this further, feel free to send me a message and I will explain it to you to your heart's content.

Aside from Fort Meade, you don't know spittle about where in the world my postings were when I was in the NSA. Unlike you, I cannot talk about it.

And you have the hypocracy to ask ME to refrain from generalized statements? I was in some areas of the world that would make most here crap their pants. You were over there also? Great. I'm not passing any judgement on your service. Attempt to elevate yourself and do the same.

Hold off with the completely ignorant statements about where I've been. And, no, despite your written invitation, I have no need to contact you via PM to get your 'explanations' or get to know you any better.
 
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Asked about the racist language allegedly used by Incognito in text and voice messages, Williams took exception to the notion that societal standards apply to a locker room setting.

"It's not inflammatory if it's your family," Williams said. "When you look at a team, especially two guys that play the same position, and you really understand how much time they spend together, you can't put it in the context that you would put it outside of a family setting. ... If you had a tape recorder in the locker room, you would hear a lot of stuff that wouldn't fly in the media. A football team, the NFL, it's a fraternity. ... It's not fair and it's not right for people on the outside to judge and try to figure out what's going on on the inside because most of the people on the outside wouldn't last a week on an NFL team."

Like I said, it's definitely a possibility that it was one guy busting another guy's balls. It also could have been a racially motivated attack. The point is we don't know yet. We haven't heard the voicemail nor have we heard the tenor of it.
 
Why the hell does it seem like every couple of weeks there's an argument where someone somehow brings up the fact they've served time in the military/army/navy?
 
Why the hell does it seem like every couple of weeks there's an argument where someone somehow brings up the fact they've served time in the military/army/navy?

Evidently, because some here are under the impression that an NFL lockerroom is a great analogy to military life.

Go figure. Kellen Winslow Jr. found out how ridiculous an analogy that is.
 
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Why the hell does it seem like every couple of weeks there's an argument where someone somehow brings up the fact they've served time in the military/army/navy?

It's apparently because the military and sports teams both seem to have a tradition of hazing/ rookie initiation that after 51 pages on this thread being discussed, you haven't understood there exist a similarly.

Oh, I do think Richie Incognito is a moron.
 
I think that Williams article portrays a really well thought out and articulated opinion from someone who spent his career in the locker room. But it is also an opinion of somebody who could handle that type of interaction and was mature enough to be able to take a step back.

Personally i think a few things from the information i have.

-Incognito is obviously a jerk (to put it mildly) and has been picking on Martin.
-Martin has planned this somewhat by keeping the voice messages e.t.c .
-I find it very hard to believe Incognito is the only guy who treated Martin this way.
-I find it hard to believe that if he was the only one treating him this way that no one else in the locker room stood up for Martin.
-It's a PR nightmare for the dolphins and Incognito and he is gone IMO.

I think both sides could have handled this better. I think back to that bullying incident caught on tape with the Giants where JPP was bullying Amakumara and picked him up and dumped him in the Ice bath. With his entire team yelling "come on prince fight him back". This type of behavior has been caught on tape e.t.c and (most) people were fine with it so i can't see why people are shocked these types of things happen. Usually it's sorted out between the 2 people in question rather than in the court of public opinion.
 
It's apparently because the military and sports teams both seem to have a tradition of hazing/ rookie initiation that after 51 pages on this thread being discussed, you haven't understood there exist a similarly.

There's hazing at fat-assed fraternities and cheerleader squads also.

What happens at band camp stays at band camp.........

Actually, this story, complete with lunch room isolation, is more akin to a 'mean girls' situation in high school.
 
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Apologies in advance if this was addressed somewhere in the previous 350 comments in this thread, but ....


Why does this keep on being characterized as 'rookie hazing', when Martin is in his second year in the NFL?




As for the Dolphins, without Martin and Incognito, Miami is without what was 40% of their starting offensive line. This for a team that was already leading the league in sacks allowed.

Martin was on the extended plan ...

Seriously ... what a mess for the NFL.
 
Sun Sentinel

In case anyone was wondering the eventual NFLPA appeal to get Incognito his $ back - this will be the basis of it. Just doing what his coaches asked.
 
The plot thickens exponentially. Philbin might not survive this.

Dolphins coaches asked Incognito to toughen up Martin, sources say

Sun Sentinel
 
Sun Sentinel

In case anyone was wondering the eventual NFLPA appeal to get Incognito his $ back - this will be the basis of it. Just doing what his coaches asked.
Incognitio may be following orders but the application of those orders is where he has made a grave mistake. I've been around elite programs long enough to know what goes on. Incognito's conduct does not represent the trash talk pros throw at one another on a daily basis.
 
If that Sun Sentinel report is true, the Dolphins, as an organization, are screwed.

Who runs that joint? Victor Kiam?
 
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If that Sun Sentinel report is true, the Dolphins, as an organization, are screwed.

Who runs that joint? Victor Kiam?

Yup, that whole coaching staff could be goners. Philbin might be out the door imminently.
 
Yup, that whole coaching staff could be goners. Philbin might be out the door imminently.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I was writing here how Philbin could be a good successor for Belichick someday. This puts a stick in the spokes of that. Perhaps he still could be, after a long stint as an assistant or a coordinator.
 
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Just a couple of weeks ago, I writing here how Philbin could be a good successor for Belichick someday. Perhaps he still could be, after a long stint as an assistant or a coordinator.

What impresses you about him? I haven't seen anything special.
 
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