Hey, I broke the top 10!
I'm not sure why the before and after is relevant. BB had a valuation on TB12 that resulted in the one year offer presumably with similar terms to what he was making i.e. $14M with a bit of a bump. TB12 indeed had just won the SB and probably was looking for something like he got out of Tampa, two years with $25M per year. The middle ground was to accept the one year deal but also request the no franchise tag and the early release so he could cash in elsewhere.
I'm still not seeing how this isn't just BB following the same team building formula he always has and it being an honest disagreement on valuation, as opposed to BB offering nothing and TB12 being forced out.
TB12 got the bride he wanted (validation by getting the cash and a starting job for two years at age 43, plus a few nice weapons) but had to take the mother in law (Arians public bad mouthing, overall lack of discipline, and inferior coaching and organizational skills compared to what he was used to) as a part of the deal. It was the best offer on the table. The "he's the coach" statement is his way of saying he's putting up with the nagging MiL as a part of the deal. Note TB12 did not in any way admit Arians was making valid criticism.
Right now things look ugly, but they should be able to beat CAR decisively this week, and have a relatively easy schedule for a few more weeks, so should be able to get things back on track. Yet IMO it does show the two are not on the same page at this time. Arians should STFU with his public criticisms, but we can't expect Arians to change, he's done that his whole career.