I live outside New England. Nothing has changed, other than some begrudging respect and a wish that he'd now retire. They're not going to give it up, because if they did, they'd finally have to admit that they "only hate us 'cause they ain't us." And, they love to hate us too much.
I think the sooner that we give up the fantasy that fans of other teams are going to stop thinking of the Pats in general and Brady in particular as "cheaters" for at least the next ten years, the better off we are. I just plain don't let it bother me any more.
I got an email this morning from someone I know in Arizona. Begrudging congratulations. Told their kids that they should learn the lesson that "cheaters sometimes win." Came complete with a suggestion that we wouldn't have won if it weren't for the OT rules . I replied that I hoped Carson Palmer had another great season next year and that they can change the rules any way they want...we'll still win.
A doorman in my building here in New York, who doesn't know I'm a Patriots fan, told me yesterday morning that he was angry that those cheating guys had won again and how they probably broke the rules somehow. He is a gentleman who was not born in this country, so I responded that, yeah, I earnestly told him that a team that would take the feathers out of the football to make it lighter would probably do anything to win. He agreed with me and I had a good laugh as I walked away.
You just gotta laugh.