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Your world is too binary Triumph. A person can have empathy without being an enabler. In every thread on Flash; going back a couple of years on this site, I have never seen anyone take an enabling position; people who have defended him (I am one) defend him from the position of "he's sick and needs help" or a "its very sad" or "I hope he gets the help he clearly needs" POV. That's hardy enabling self destructive behavior.
The human condition is hardy ever as black and white as you make it out; rather life, and the people which fill it; is and are full of nuance.
Flash has had a number of opportunities to get right. He hasn't. He must now, seemingly once and for all, (rightfully) face the consequences of those decisions; in the form of losing his place in the NFL. What could have been....
Your constant approach to Flash in the numerous threads on him here has been, at best, one of toxic masculinity, alpha-dude-bro-ism, holier than thou, stone throwing.
Maybe it's how "the fan" manifests in you vs me where the difference lies. Maybe its our differing views on civics and society more broadly. I don't know. But I do know that under the helmet and pads, there is a human being; who while blessed with physical talents I could only ever dream to have, and the great benefit of monetizing those talents for a brief period of time, is still a human with human failings.
I see that and feel sadness for the person. You see that and feel your next Barstool Comment Section joke coming on...
As for your closing line, give me a break. That line was silly when it was played on a different sub-forum on this site just as it is here and now. That is and never has been the bar for honest concern.