After some time to cool off I wanted to apologize for this post. While I *strongly* disagree with Pats1989's posts and think they're excessively 'gloomy and doomy', and quite frankly, inaccurate, I was insensitive and a bit of a prick in my post.
My apologies, as this is a really bad look. We're all dealing with stuff in our respective lives and I failed to keep that in mind.
All the best to you Pats1989, and I hope you're able to get things in your life together as you mentioned you're trying to do.