No one really should be talking about whether or not they would reject or take the Jets offer or even postulating whether or not money is worth it to change companies so to speak. Not a single person discussing this has ever been in a situation where they had a $13 million dollar job offer staring them in the face. Stop pretending like you know what his or anyone else's (whose faced with that much money) motivations are.
This is an extremely important point -- especially the part I bolded -- because it's so true. 95% of fans trot out the hackneyed excuse of "well, if
I was Hightower, I wouldn't care about a couple extra million a year, I'd already be set for life financially anyway", and yet 95% of players end up going to the highest bidder (unless the money is really, really close -- $2-3M extra a year is not "really close"). The safe thing to say is that most fans
think they would do one thing, but when faced with the prospect they would
actually do what most players end up doing.
The other thing that is wildly exaggerated is playing for the Jets versus the Patriots. At the end of the day, we are talking about
playing professional football for a living. We use colorful language like "going to the abyss and playing for the Jets". Uhm, what? Who cares if the Jets are awful, you're still playing a game for a living! Playing for the Jets -- all hyperbole and jokes about how terrible the Jets are aside -- is not the equiavlent of going to work in a coal mine and developing chronic lung disease. And rainbows don't start shooting out your ass just because you sign with the Patriots.
For that matter, there's no guarantee the Jets are going to continue to be awful. When players come in for visits, I guarantee you the brass is making pitches to them about how they have plans to turn things around and start fielding a competitive team again. And guess what? The way teams get better is by
acquiring better players. Hightower alone may not move the needle much, but acquiring a handful of players of Hightower's caliber will.