This is sketchy territory because it's gossipy misinfo without the particulars of a situation. Like the status of a marriage #1. Not that entering that area is good.. lol. Just not like having dinner together and banging her in the bathroom for example...very very bad.
Who cares if you go off topic? It's a forum. Discuss whatever.
Like if you meet people at church, do you only talk about the church? No you talk about life as it relates to church. Or football ,same thing. I remember as a kid skipping Sunday school to watch NFL films. Bad boy. See what happened... OMG