Thanks! It is good to hear from a kind-hearted person. It is all too easy for polite discussions on social media to go off the rails. It is because of the anonymous nature of these forums lead to things being said that would not be said in person.
Anyway I was in the hospital for 3 days after spine surgery and I am still groggy so please excuse any worse-than-usual typos and gaffs. My phys therapist could not believe it when I said how much I enjoyed the hospital, but it was a great experience [except for the catheter but the less said about that, the better]. The staff at the hospital were great. My favorite nurse was an African woman from Kenya, but I also had fascinating conversations with people from the Philippines, Dominican Republic, Cameroon--> Cape Verde islands, Liberia, etc.