Never going to beat a female, that is where you get into trouble, but if she dishes out, she can also take about half of what she dished out. For example, I have held both hands of a drunk female, at football game, together until security came to prevent her from hitting us because she said we were sitting at the wrong area since we came from out of town. She started to kick, so I stepped on her feet with just enough force not to hurt her.
I just don't like the idea of being abused and just walking away. It is not right, we are all equal and I truly believe that.