I'm not really understanding what you're saying. The 10 second run off was a completely different play in a completely different half, and it required a discussion because the coach needed to make an election between 10 second run off and time out. When a TD is called on the field and there is a defensive foul, there is no requirement for a discussion, because it's an obvious decline.
But it was clear that they announced that it was a penalty and it was decline. I saw Stetatore announce it on the TV. It didn't take being in the stadium to know that or not. In fact, you might not be able to hear Statore as clear in the stadium as you can on home. They said it was a defensive penalty and it was declined. If they overruled it after that before the replay or not replay, it is not legal.
Declining a penalty is not an irrevocable decision. In any event, where in the rule book do you see a rule that says, "once a coach has declined a penalty
the refs can't discuss it even if a replay later shows they need to."
There's an obvious explanation for the way things went down last night. It is consistent with all of the visual evidence, what a guy in the stadium heard, and the seemingly routine manner in which everyone handled the placement of the ball. There are tin foil hat conspiracy theories that involve Steratore getting under the hood and demanding a replay of the far end zone shot to review the pocket issue, but I assume the replay booth would have said, "what the heck are you asking for that for." Anyway, the easy explanation is this:
1) Back Judge sees illegal contact and throws the flag.
2) TD
3) Line Judge reports to Steratore that the ball was caught.
4) Back Judge reports a foul on the defense.
5) Since the result of the play is a TD, Steratore very quickly signals TD and calls the penalty "declined".
6) Steratore gets buzzed. Commercial.
7) Suddenly the question whether there was a penalty is relevant, whereas it wasn't before, so the U tells R he has additional information. They caucus to figure out the timing. BJ picks up his flag.
8) Apparently, this is announced to the crowd. Perhaps Steratore explains it to the sidelines. Who knows?
9) Replay shows no catch. Penalty enforced and everyone seems to understand the ruling except the idiots in the booth.