I'm doing my best to keep some perspective.
I'm distinguishing between my feelings about the performance today and my feelings about the season.
On the performance today, as someone who lives in NY, it's simple: I've been telling friends in New York that a BB team would NEVER lie down the way the Giants lay down the last two weeks of their season. Well, now I have to eat crow.
There's no way that, as fans, we shouldn't be angry and disappointed at how the team played today. I know that none of us have ever laced them up and stepped between the white lines on a Sunday afternoon in the NFL, but I think it's fair for us to expect the team to show up for a Playoff game (for any game after the preseason, but especially for a Playoff Game?!). They didn't. For the first time in the BB era, a Patriots team just didn't show up to play and they did so in the biggest game of their season. We have a right to be furious and disappointed and if we shelled out money for a ticket to feel ripped off. It was embarrassing.
As for how I feel about the season, I disagree with those who say it was a waste and whatever else people are saying about it in these threads. I think, and recorded this in weekly posts in Andy's thread, that the season turned out about like I expected: division title but not 13 or 14 wins.
They were clearly trying to rebuild the Defense on the fly with the Seymour and Vrabel trades at the same time they lost Rodney and Brewski to retirement and they were getting young in the secondary and at the same time their QB was coming back from a major injury. From that perspective, the season itself probably worked out about as well as we could have (reasonably) expected. If your perspective was that this was not the time to do that all at once, well I might disagree with you but I can't argue with you either.
But none of that changes how I feel about how they played today. For the first time in a decade+, I was embarrassed to be a Pats fan, just for the day, but truly embarrassed. We'll be back. There's too much talent and too much (hopefully) anger not to be back. We can only hope that they have a great Draft/FA period, clean house in some areas and are ready to make another run next year when Tommy is 33 before a possible strike year, which would make him 35 at the start of a 2012 season.