Perhaps you have a point, much of the discussion on this thread consists of arguments on what consists a “threat”. Some are interpreting it as a direct threat, some as an implied threat. Perhaps a more accurate phrasing is “an attempt to intimidate”, I think it is difficult to argue that there wasn't some intent on intimidation when one combines the group text that included her and these unknown (to her) pals of his who were going to investigate her. I think including the pictures of the kids was really over the line too.
Excellent post. Now someone is actually thinking.
So I think we can agree there is nothing in there that constitutes an overt threat.
I think we can agree that the kids being in the pictures creates a bad optic. Makes people feel
Like why would you put the kids pictures in there.
So then you move to is it intimidation?
This seems to be all there is to fall back in because there is a desire to paint it as ugly.
But if it’s a threat by intimidation there has to be some type of behavior he is trying to intimidate and there has to be some type of behavior you are trying to prevent by intimidation.
There isn’t. He simply is sending a text because he is pissed off that she made negative comments about him.
There is nothing in there such as “retract it or...” “if you sue me you will be sorry”. All he does is say that he can investigate her too.
In order to consider this a threat he has to say, imply or even allude to taking some type of negative action against her or her kids.
He said they look broke and he should investigate her in response to her making public criticisms of him. Nothing in that is threatening.
Bad taste. Inconsiderate. Douchy. Stupid. Creepy. But not threatening.