One of your problems is that you continue to engage in circular reasoning, which is a rather frustrating method of having any discussion.
Posting an opinion on a message board is not entering a pissing contest, but posting the way you have done--accusing posters of immaturity, making rather broad, bold, and bizarre statements, and making sweeping generalizations about players' personal lives (which we really don't know about) and about their crappy performance (while eschewing stats and going merely on personal opinion, as you did in the Brady-as-mediocre-QB discussion) while dismissing others' opinions as irrelevant-- is exactly that.
And you have already said you would prefer Bulger--that is, by definition, a preference for Bulger. You said that Brady was a major problem in 2005 and in 2006 (calling Brady and Watson the worst players on the team this year)--two years is indeed plural. That is factual information.
The majority of posters on this board are Brady fans. He has been a winning quarterback, a championship quarterback, and a team leader. Those same posters you have reviled are probably waiting to see what he does in this situation before rushing to judgement, before choosing to pillory him for something which is really neither shocking, nor offensive, nor cruel. The fans are preferring to be positive, and enthusiastic.
The man and woman involved are two very wealthy, very famous adults, not kids in a trailer park. She doesn't need any pity, and it's highly unlikely that he deserves any scorn.