Or I believe in being civil in a mature and balanced society. I believe that it is advantageous to collectively acting in a civil manner. Being polite and respectful of others is not a bad thing. "Actually care"? Sure. I care about PatsFans,
@Ian has put a lot of work into it, and if Ian closed PatsFans, it would be civil of him to write a thank you note to all of the posters. "Actually care" like I care about my family, kids, wife, etc.? No. There are different levels of commitment, and we all commit more or less depending on our personalities and situations. That is why it is constructive to be polite and respectful, and say thanks. Even say thanks more than once.
Not sure why it is important to be a manly man and out muscle posters on a message board. We all care, we are here, it is a forum which is a form of entertainment. We only participate in forms of entertainment we enjoy.