You and Quantum are both missing the point. This isn't about saying "Screw the other teams". This is about the NFL's reaction to a terrible situation and how they're making it worse, not better.
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So, let's focus on the bigger issue, like Stradley is doing with this and other articles.
Out of curiosity, do you believe the NFL should be involved in this area at all? Stradley points to why this policy is bad/misguided, but I don't believe she indicates it should be amended or ways to fix it or whether it should be scrapped. I was waiting for the punch line.
This particular area of criminal law is a horrible fit for NFL discipline. In a public sports league, there is a continuing and widespread media spotlight on any process that may affect field performance by a team. Concepts like victim anonymity or addressing challenged relationships down the road have no place. Many opined after Rice that the NFL should leave this to the competent state authorities and wait for convictions to act. I was in that group.
As for Quantum's more general statement, I agree with it. When a corrupt procedure is celebrated by those who later become victims of it and thereafter bemoan the unfairness of it all, then I feel a very real sense of satisfaction. Given the outcome and what happened during Deflategate, screw Jerrah and the Boys for not trying to right the ship then.
I am not going to react excessively to what happened in the handling of Elliot's case, because this investigation (1) was not prosecuted completely, (2) has significant factual issues and (3) may or may not be domestic violence at all (she and Elliot know what happen, but even reading the schlock with the details I would like to hear more from the respective parties). I still believe the NFL should stay out of this entirely because it is completely unqualified to address the concern given it is a PR engine driven by the concerns of owners and 32 fan bases (mob rule).