She fails instantaneously because her definition of rape does not fit with the true definition of rape.
Even after you get past the definition of rape, men are able to think critically on that matter because not all men are rapists. Her definition was terrible and wrong.
Look, I totally agree that her definition is stupid. She was a ****ty person with stupid beliefs. But by her definition, all men *are* rapists, and quoting the dictionary definition of rape doesn't change that. If the dictionary was the end authority, then I could have ended this whole natural debate by posting this:
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nat·u·ral
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adjective
1.
existing in or caused by nature; not made or caused by humankind.
"carrots contain a natural antiseptic that fights bacteria"
2.
of or in agreement with the character or makeup of, or circumstances surrounding, someone or something.
"sharks have no natural enemies"
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as proof that your definition of natural is incorrect. Even if you're trying to claim that homosexuality is unnatural because attraction to women facilitates reproduction, I'll just point out that monogamy, then, must also be unnatural, since sex with many women will produce far more offspring than sex with one woman. By remaining faithful to a single woman, we act against our 'natural' desires and thus inhibit our ability to pass on our genes.
The point? To claim that gay people aren't capable of rationally discussing homosexuality is ludicrous.
I'm going to go out and assume that you're a white man. If you're not white, substitute your race - it isn't really relevant to the point anyway. If someone who isn't a white man tells you that 'white men are inherently predisposed to evil, and you're in no position to argue otherwise because the issue is too personal for you', how will you respond to that person? For your sake, I hope you would respond exactly as I would: by laughing at that person then telling her to **** off.
Why can I do that? Because this notion that you can't critically examine characteristics that you possess is, simply put, really dumb.