Whether Spygate, illegal formations, deceptive trades or this, who cares? Do you actually believe the typical NFL fan likes your team? It will be a cold day in hell when I stop wearing my team's gear in Texas. For those concerned about property damage or people acting like jerks, how is now any different than 2 weeks or 2 years ago? The Pats are and were hated at that time.
Deal with the fact that only the Patriots fans like the Patriots. If you were the fan of another team for any length of time, would you like or feign respect for the team that has stomped on the NFL for more than a decade? Would you love the Bills, or Niners or Cowboys or Donkeys during the times they were unstoppable in getting to the title game and dominated the playoff scene? Multiply those periods of dominance by 4 and you have what the Pats have done. The entire NFL fanbase other than us would happily see this team erased, if only for the change in scenery. That is why the first four games had a "ding, dong the witch is dead" feel to it. And then, much to my great pleasure, like that awesome scene in A Perfect Storm where the clouds break for a moment just before dumping everything on the little boat, the Pats returned in force.
My suggestion is have fun with this. My typical answer is "if you ain't cheating, you ain't trying" or I ask when their team last won a title. The fact is, most other teams suck and any tiny shred of a conspiracy theory gives them hope that history is not reality. But you had better have a thick skin. A title for the Pats of "beloved' outside this fan base is unlikely, so develop a thick skin or get out for your own mental health. I would much rather have the team hated than pitied and ridiculed as the 'Patsies', a term some of the older fans had to hear for so many years. Enjoy the success now, because it does not last forever.