I'm sorry but this sounds like hyperbole to me.
He "punched a kicking net"? Oh, no, the humanity! How many times have we seen a football player slam a helmet down, break a baseball bat over their knee (Papi has done this countless times), go to town on a Gatorade dispenser, etc? Tom Brady and Bill O'Brien had a silly screaming, well-publicized hissy fit, Bill Belichick slammed his $1000 Surface Pro onto a table out of frustration, etc. It's sports -- people get passionate and heated.
My opinion is that OBJ is excessively vilified because he plays in a big market and because he brings some of it on himself with how loud/brash he is. Yes, he is a diva, but nothing he did yesterday was particularly outrageous to me.
And for that matter, not sure what kind of silly response "whether it bothers you or not is irrelevant" is. I don't accept the narrative that the media jams down our throat; that is totally relevant -- it's called "an opinion". I don't think what he did warrants the coverage. 95% of this board is hyper-sensitive anytime the media says anything remotely negative about the Patriots or one of our players, which is sometimes justified, because they oftentimes sensationalize stories. I don't think this is any different.
Andre Johnson exchanging blows with Cortland Finnegan -- that to me a million times more worse than anything OBJ did yesterday.