if someone doesn't think gronk isn't going to go into a league meeting with his people and a tape of plays from the past season and previous seasons to show where his head was at and what motivated him, they don't get how this works
a guy like burfict, with his history, his demeanor, his style of play, his lack of remorse......he's simply a guy that earns his paycheck playing over the line
gronk is a guy that tends to play the game right.....he's usually pretty happy go lucky......if there is an appeal to be had or a meeting with the league, he's going to build his case, without a doubt, that he believes he is not officiated fairly (and he clearly has a case here), and that has built up into a lot of frustration on his part, and it boiled over on this play.....he showed remorse immediately afterwards (unlike 95% of the players facing disciplinary action), and can make the case for his mental state as a result being the motivation/cause for his actions vs. a player that simply plays the edge