He's not in the same spot next year, unless you think the RFA status is going to somehow end up at 7 years instead of 6, so I don't know where you're getting that notion from. Also, he's under no obligation to take a contract he doesn't want, he's under no obligation to refrain from speaking his mind regarding the team or his contract status, and he's under no obligation to come in before week 10 in order to accrue his year of service.
If he wants to feel insulted because the team is trying to pay him something on the order of a million plus dollars less per season than a player he deems his fair comparison, that's for him to decide. I'm reasonably sure that would piss off pretty much everybody, including you.