I'll occasionally go "Tooo bad, sooooo sad," mainly when the local Brady-is-all-there-is guys are in high gear. I think for me it changed the week we played the Bucs. I used to pretend you can "kind of" like the Bucs much more... that week it became, "Hey remember when that guy played for us? He was awesome back then. Now, **** him."
And I don't even think he's a "traitor." He just doesn't play for the New England Patriots. I'm a Patriots fan.
That's the modern NFL... He wasn't right or wrong. He did what made him happy. He would have had to bend over backwards to continue to deal with the NE situation, where they were always dealing with possible cap issues and pushing them into the future. They did that pretty well. He helped them as much as he could. But the cap ride was ending after 20 years.
He could try to eke out some more years at NE, going through putting a team on an aging back and hoping for the best, giving up salary to take fliers on unproven fits in the system, maybe felt taken for granted by the organization, which he saw seeing him as just not a long term concern... or he could take an offer with his crew pre-assembled, and leave.
I don't think the Pats were right or wrong, they valued him how they valued him, understanding that cap money is not an infinite resource (and he had to know something would break in that regard.) I think he was ready to walk based on the weapons there vs. the weapons here - he had been patient a long time, but now he needed good weapons. He can't do this stuff with Reche Caldwell and the like anymore, god bless the glandular freak.
Similarly, the Pats just didn't have the toys for him. They could have stroked his ego with more money in his pocket, but I don't think that's the motivator for TFB. He can always ask Giselle for a loan, and even if they split up, I still don't see running into him outside the piggly wiggly store with a cardboard cup in his hand. But he wanted toys for his birthday, not cash.
So all that said,
right now, he's just not a Patriot.
It's kinda cool still to say, hey, Tommy's kickin butt, that's great, that shows people 3 years ago that he's the GOAT (the last time there was any scintilla of a question remaining.)
But yeah every now and then he's had a bad day and I've been fine with the schadenfreude and I sure as hell don't feel one way or the other about it. I know what the deal was in 2001-2019, Tom F Brady forevah, 100 yeahs!!!! But this is 2021. He. Plays. For. Tampa Bay.
Not fair to him to apply "the enemy of my team is the friend of you, making you the enemy of my team" logic, but why be picky about emotional reactions to a Tampa Bay Buccaneer. I mean, if someone here is his buddy and says "Tom Buddy, don't read what that PatsfaninVa guy said tonight on Patsfans.com, I know you usually love his stuff, but don't read it tonight," and then TFB is reported to have wept until he became dehydrated and pulled something in practice the next day, maybe then I'd feel a little guilty, but that seems vanishingly unlikely
And btw if anybody thinks having this reaction to a bad Tom day is the fan equivalent of being happy when the New England Patriots lose so they can chirp about how right they are and how terrible a coach BB is, etc. etc., ad infinitum, ad nauseum, you are Ross saying "Pivot." Guess what Chandler says.