WA private HS school team has 3 forfeit wins this season

[QuantumMechanic]

^^^^

Agreed. Every team should forfeit to them and that'll solve the "wrong division" problem really quickly since the "recruit from everywhere" school won't be able to hold onto the recruits once they realize they won't actually get to play any games. So the school would be highly incented to get itself into an appropriate division.

 

[IllegalContact]

I'm not questioning you as a parent, but just pointing out that having a lot of kids doesn't necessarily guarantee you're a good parent. Having more kids doesn't mean knowing more. Heck, some parents can't even remember all of their kids' names...



But seriously, I do understand what you're saying. The truth is that nobody really knows for sure what the right answer is. Both sides could be right, because it also depends on the child. Every kid is different. For some kids, it's a chance to hide from doing something tough and they would benefit from being forced to grind through and develop character. For other kids, it might foster a sense of helplessness knowing it's an unwinnable situation. For other kids, they might take the challenge too far and try to do too much.

There's no "one" answer that fits every kid, and that's why each parent may come to different but equally correct decisions. There's way too much *****ing and judgment in parenting these days. Too many people think they have the magic formula for all kids, and it simply doesn't exist. I've seen parents do things I would never do, but it works. And then I see it fail sometimes too. And I've seen parents do things I think are smart, and it fails. But then I see it works sometimes too.

Let's be honest, we're all just making it up as we go. And it's difficult enough without everyone trying to decide what is "right" or "wrong" for everyone else.

The schools decided what's right......

 

[IllegalContact]

Semantics....sports don't define our lives. Just as our jobs, the money we make or don't make or where we live don't define us.

The way we live and how we treat others are the only things that define our lives

Deep thoughts

So then nothing is life except life itself