Copied from BSG comments: I'm not going to see the behavior of someone who just turned 24 as central to the problem, when he is surrounded by men in their 30's, 40's, 50's, and even 70's who set the norms, do the modeling, provide the boundaries, and are responsible for developing his emotional intelligence. Sure, Jones could behave better, but I see that as a symptom, not a cause.
Question: which of the primary coaches on this staff have comfortable, close relationships with the players? The kind where they routinely have "how are you doing, really?" and "tell me how we (the coaches) are doing with you guys" types of conversations. Sharing a beer with a vet as two men on the same journey, each with a role to play. Who have a pulse on each of the players' personal lives. All of the Pats' coaches seem to be standoffish guys, and I think that's where this starts. You can survive having one guy like that among the top three, but not all three of them.
I'm just spit balling on this, of course.