If anyone is honestly questioning "The Patriot Way," they obviously have a narrowed viewpoint of what it means...
The Patriot Way means:
1. Never putting one individual above the rest of the team
2. Playing together as a whole, allowing everyone to properly do their jobs
3. Representing your teammates and community with class and never throwing anyone under the bus in the media or public setting
4. Giving back to the fans and the people of the community and area with service work on an every week basis
5. Growing together as a team and learning from your mistakes as the year progresses (this is one of the reasons why we see a very good record post-Thanksgiving on a consistant basis)
6. Being held accountable for your actions and mistakes, while also working hard in your role (just one of the reasons why guys like Haynesworth, Ochocinco, and possibly even Moss did not end up sticking around for good)
7. Coupling financial value with on the field performance....not only through the draft, but also with UDFAs, traded players, and even bringing in versatile guys off the street when applicable
8. Winning....as many games as possible, not only now but in the future
9. Properly planning and running your franchise with an eye on the salary cap and the changes to the CBA and other NFL rules
10. Never sacrificing the present for the future, as the future will be the present before you know it
11. Ignoring the noise--both good and bad. The only thing that matters is the play on the field, the work you put into it, and the role you represent. Everything else will come from that work. Other people's outside opinions do not matter here
12. Comment as little as possible on the bad, and always give credit to the work and positive traits of your opponent. Whenever in doubt, it's best to keep your mouth shut
13. Always be prepared--both on and off the field. You may need to play a role or position that you are not as familiar with, so pay attention to the entire scheme
14. Know your playbook inside and out, pay close attention both in meetings and film study. The game plan will change during the week vs the specific opponent and circumstance
I'm sure there are many, many more. Nothing that has been done has not at least followed one or more rules of the Patriot Way, and that includes trying to find value from other players who may provide success (Haynesworth, Ochocinco, Talib) via trades, or players that fell and are potentially worth more in the draft setting (Mallett, Hernandez, Gronkowski, Dennard). There is not a 100% success rate with much of anything, so I don't find any of their choices straying from what we deem as "The Patriot Way."
If D & C are questioning "The Patriot Way" based on the acquisition of a handful of players that don't agree with, they are obviously also forgetting about the ones that worked out just fine (Moss, Dillon, possibly Talib). On top of that, they are completely narrowing their definition to one aspect, rather than "understand" what it completely means in a bigger sense. It'd be nice if someone reminded those who are questioning this aspect with some of these traits that will never change as long as the proper coach/front office/owner remain here.