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I would ask your boss for special consideration (because the father doesn't bank with you, etc.), and if he/she says no, you can't accept the gift, then offer to take you and your kid (or you and your wife, whichever way will result in fewer tears )and two other's of the company's choosing to the game & see what they say.
I would not risk my job to go to a Pats game, even though I love them more than anything. I bet you if you accept the tickets and then try to hide it you will be sweating it out and won't enjoy yourself. What if this customer mentions to your co-worker that his dad gave you the tickets? Better to have it all on the up-and-up with your boss I say.
I hope you get to go and have a fabulous time!
As a guy who's been in a senior role in banks and Professional Service Firms for years, I can tell you that anyone senior enough to give a waiver from a policy like this would seriously question why he was even being asked before saying "No" and placing a question mark next to the name of the individual involved, as well as the manager who brought it to his/her attention.