I Could Use Your Thoughts and Prayers

[neuronet]

Having a good morning. Ian, PB12, and all of you continue to encourage me. Thank you and I pray you all have a great day.

Wonderful! This gives me great hope. While we know there are good days and bad days, it seems mornings can be particularly tough, so this really makes my day.

 

[Kontradiction]

Having a good morning. Ian, PB12, and all of you continue to encourage me. Thank you and I pray you all have a great day.


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Good to hear you started off on the right foot. Take every day one minute at a time.

 

[Frick]

Prayers don't cost a thing, but they pay the highest interest. My wife and I will include you in our prayers every day even after your condition improves. All things are possible with the Father, I believed that when my wife and I were living on the streets and I believe it even more now. May God Bless and Keep You and Yours close to his heart for all time.

 

[anditsgood]

Ken and PB12, it is truly great to see you both here and posting!

When I've had times when things are really pulling me down, I've literally uttered the words "Not today. NOT today!" to myself. .

@Kenneth Sims

I cannot say how great advice this is, with your faith, perhaps you can ask God not to test you when those feels/thoughts come

Hope you are well Kenneth

 

[ralmat55]

Prayers don't cost a thing, but they pay the highest interest. My wife and I will include you in our prayers every day even after your condition improves. All things are possible with the Father, I believed that when my wife and I were living on the streets and I believe it even more now. May God Bless and Keep You and Yours close to his heart for all time.

God bless you my brother and sister. Thank you for your prayers.


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[ralmat55]

@Kenneth Sims

I cannot say how great advice this is, with your faith, perhaps you can ask God not to test you when those feels/thoughts come

Hope you are well Kenneth

Actually took his advice this afternoon. Was weepy so went into the bathroom at work and gave myself a little talking to in the mirror. I can't say it stopped my weeping but it helped me collect my emotions a little.


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[ralmat55]

It has been a roller coaster of a day. Started strong but realized in morning that in less than a week the marriage that I thought just a year ago would last a lifetime will be over this time next week which caused me considerable sadness. It still seems like a bad dream that it has come to this. It has gotten better tonight as my family came through for me with calls from a niece, a nephew and my sister.

I have a decision to make. In my State, a divorce is not final until 60 days after the court date. The 60 day period can be eliminated if both parties sign a waiver of appeal. My ex signed it and mailed it to the court before she left New England for Old England. I have not signed it, and I am tempted not to do so until after Christmas..

Friends tell me just get over with and sign it. But, I have been at the mercy of my ex and her English lounge lizard since this began. Now I have the power and I am tempted to use it if for no other reason than just spite.

I'm in no hurry. She was my Christmas bride(Dec 19th), and I want to keep that for myself. They can wait if that is what they plan.

My sister is on board with sticking it to them. I'm interested in your opinions. Good night my friends.


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[anditsgood]

It has been a roller coaster of a day. Started strong but realized in morning that in less than a week the marriage that I thought just a year ago would last a lifetime will be over this time next week which caused me considerable sadness. It still seems like a bad dream that it has come to this. It has gotten better tonight as my family came through for me with calls from a niece, a nephew and my sister.

I have a decision to make. In my State, a divorce is not final until 60 days after the court date. The 60 day period can be eliminated if both parties sign a waiver of appeal. My ex signed it and mailed it to the court before she left New England for Old England. I have not signed it, and I am tempted not to do so until after Christmas..

Friends tell me just get over with and sign it. But, I have been at the mercy of my ex and her English lounge lizard since this began. Now I have the power and I am tempted to use it if for no other reason than just spite.

I'm in no hurry. She was my Christmas bride(Dec 19th), and I want to keep that for myself. They can wait if that is what they plan.

My sister is on board with sticking it to them. I'm interested in your opinions. Good night my friends.


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if there is a personal reason why she wants it done immediately, then be in no rush to sign it, if you are holding back just to stick it to her, then i would disagree, sign it and get it over with. Just,dont hold on to it, trying to prevent inevitable .

Either way, you will feel guilty for your choice. Its naturally, just do it at the pace when you are comfortable.

 

[farn]

These are challenging times for you, Kenneth. You have good times ahead, they are just difficult to see because you are having a tough go at it. Trust us - as many of us have had similar difficulties - patience, time, friends will all be allies.

I don't know about your current choice, I trust you will make the best decision for you. Try to stay strong and start trying to make decisions based only on what you need, not on spite or what affects others.

Stay well, friend.

 

[SEA_Pat]

I'd say sign it and move on. You need to cut ties and put this in your rear view mirror. Any excuse you have that makes you think about her makes you sad. Start throwing all that junk away and cut off any reasons why you might otherwise be tempted to do so. She doesn't care about you, time for you to not care about her. Be strong my friend.

 

[Tony2046]

It has been a roller coaster of a day. Started strong but realized in morning that in less than a week the marriage that I thought just a year ago would last a lifetime will be over this time next week which caused me considerable sadness. It still seems like a bad dream that it has come to this. It has gotten better tonight as my family came through for me with calls from a niece, a nephew and my sister.

I have a decision to make. In my State, a divorce is not final until 60 days after the court date. The 60 day period can be eliminated if both parties sign a waiver of appeal. My ex signed it and mailed it to the court before she left New England for Old England. I have not signed it, and I am tempted not to do so until after Christmas..

Friends tell me just get over with and sign it. But, I have been at the mercy of my ex and her English lounge lizard since this began. Now I have the power and I am tempted to use it if for no other reason than just spite.

I'm in no hurry. She was my Christmas bride(Dec 19th), and I want to keep that for myself. They can wait if that is what they plan.

My sister is on board with sticking it to them. I'm interested in your opinions. Good night my friends.


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Nitty gritty stuff buddy. Whatever you decide is fine. Even if you later decide that it was immature or retaliatory who cares? Not a big deal either way as long as it's on your terms because your decisions should be about you.

 

[anditsgood]

Nitty gritty stuff buddy. Whatever you decide is fine. Even if you later decide that it was immature or retaliatory who cares? Not a big deal either way as long as it's on your terms because your decisions should be about you.

you might want to edit that joke

 

[Nikolai]

I like the spite angle...it appeals to my vengeful side. But, really, the real question is, what do you do with spoiled milk? Rotten eggs? Those things were good at one time, but now? Time to get rid of it with the quickness.

Sign and be done is my vote.

 

[Tony2046]

you might want to edit that joke

I did. Thank you.

 

[anditsgood]

I did. Thank you.

I didnt mean delete it,

 

[Tony2046]

I didnt mean delete it,

haha. It was a post from earlier today and I had decided to write something else but when I posted tonight the remnants from the earlier post were still there.

 

[n1997y]

It has been a roller coaster of a day. Started strong but realized in morning that in less than a week the marriage that I thought just a year ago would last a lifetime will be over this time next week which caused me considerable sadness. It still seems like a bad dream that it has come to this. It has gotten better tonight as my family came through for me with calls from a niece, a nephew and my sister.

I have a decision to make. In my State, a divorce is not final until 60 days after the court date. The 60 day period can be eliminated if both parties sign a waiver of appeal. My ex signed it and mailed it to the court before she left New England for Old England. I have not signed it, and I am tempted not to do so until after Christmas..

Friends tell me just get over with and sign it. But, I have been at the mercy of my ex and her English lounge lizard since this began. Now I have the power and I am tempted to use it if for no other reason than just spite.

I'm in no hurry. She was my Christmas bride(Dec 19th), and I want to keep that for myself. They can wait if that is what they plan.

My sister is on board with sticking it to them. I'm interested in your opinions. Good night my friends.


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Don't cut off your nose to spite your face. If you're in no rush don't hurry just to get it done, don't hold back just to delay the inevitable either. If you're worried that she wants to celebrate the holidays with their marriage then don't worry about taking your time, but don't let your fears and worries control you either. Don't overthink it. Make up your mind, either sign it or put it on the shelf and forget about it. Don't dwell on it, that just gives her more power over you.

 

[neuronet]

Sign it. Why hold on to any remnant of her?

My vote anyway. But you have all the votes this isn't a democracy

 

[ralmat55]

Awakened early by a low flying plane. Guess where that took my mind? Thoughts of her are constantly on my mind even though I have not communicated with her in days. There is this constant feeling of loss and longing.

Beginning to think I need to sell my house and move away to get away from what once was.

Going to try to stay positive and forward thinking today. Wish me well and keep me in your prayers.


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[Tony2046]

Good morning Kenneth.

Do you find that work helps you focus on other things? Just curious.