Let's say little eight year old Joey, who is an avid NFL fan, hears about what Haynesworth did. Is he now more likely to, either now or in the future, to reproduce the incident? I argue a steadfast NO. He sees what happens, his parents tell him it was a bad thing to do because driving like an idiot is a bad thing to do. Then he sees Haynesworth get punished. Haynesworth has served as an EXAMPLE, not a ROLE MODEL.
Sure, SOME NFL players are role models, but some are also just good examples of what not to do. It's ridiculous to assume that just because NFL players are in a visible position that they be held to some role model standard by the fans. The NFL wants to hold them to a higher standard to improve the image of the game, and that's fine -- I'm just saying don't expect these people to raise your kids with Christian values over the TV set.