... using god as a crutch anytime something doesn't go right irks me...
Me too, but I think you are misinterpreting his usage a bit.
He's saying that when something bad happens to you, and (after that supposedly devastatingly bad thing happens) you end up far better off in the long run, then (in his opinion) God had some role in leading him through this fortunate, unexpected, and initially unwanted turn of events.
example:
-his dream was to play for Nebraska
-Nebraska wasn't interested, other than him walking on as a kickoff returner
-he went to Chadron State and worked his butt off, played like he never would have been allowed to play at Nebraska, and got his athleticism and football skills to a pretty high level
-Then he oddly got invited back to Nebraska for a pro day. He ran a 4.33 and that got him invited to Jets camp.
-Had he, four years before, gotten his way and gone to Nebraska as their last scholarship player or a walk-on running back, he likely would have been buried behind players who "looked the part", never seen the field, never would have been invited to Nebraska's own pro day, and never would have made it to the NFL.
It's one of those odd twists and turns in life when bad fortune leads to good. He wants to attribute it to a higher being. As long as he's not demanding that I do the same, I have no issue with it.