Patriots Rumor Is Mike’s job security in danger? (Vrabel + Russini)

[n1997y]

It’s not boots it’s booger

Danged autocorrect. Autocorrupt.

 

[XLIX]

1) Weak association. As a former teammate, is Gronkowski responsible for Vrabel's actions?
2) BTW, they aren't former teammates. Vrabel was gone before Gronk showed up.

 

[n1997y]

To make sure?? I mean you are married right? Don't know if you have kids but ask yourself this. If your wife was out and it has been known for 6 years now with some other dude and right around one of their meetings is a time that she got pregnant...

What good does it do to hurt her and her kid, just because you’re hurting?

Do you really love her? Or do you only love her for being married to you?

Could you adopt and love a kid? How’s that different than loving her kid even if your unsure of paternity?

 

[ViperGTS]

What good does it do to hurt her and her kid, just because you’re hurting?

Do you really love her? Or do you only love her for being married to you?

Could you adopt and love a kid? How’s that different than loving her kid even if your unsure of paternity?

It has numerous legal ramifications. It would be a nagging question that will sit and rot in the back of your mind for a lifetime if you don't know the answer. It also would open the door for 100 percent custody of the kids and a massive win in judgement. I'd divorce the **** out of her immediately. A one time thing could be discussed but this was more, much more than that.

 

[Patsfanin Philly]

Whitlock isn't wrong to speculate that one of both of Russini's kids might be Vrabel's

Russini's husband needs to test those kids paternity

Not so sure, he's in a no win situation. If he doesn't test them, he can go on believing they are his kids regardless of whether they are and bury his head in the sand. Lots of baggage to carry and eventually the kids will grow up and somebody will mention it to them and if kid does a 23 and me , results will come out. Is it better to find out when kid is 5 or 15? If it isn't his kid and they get divorced does he lose visitation/custody? He's loved the kid as his own for 5 years.
Let's suppose he does test the kid and kids Y chromosome isn't his. Does he lose custody? Does he stop loving him? Best case scenario is he tests the kid and it is his own DNA. But, would you be willing to take that risk if you were in his position?
If you feel the need to do a DNA test to see if your child is really yours, your marriage is done.

 

[Boogs]

Not so sure, he's in a no win situation. If he doesn't test them, he can go on believing they are his kids regardless of whether they are and bury his head in the sand. Lots of baggage to carry and eventually the kids will grow up and somebody will mention it to them and if kid does a 23 and me , results will come out. Is it better to find out when kid is 5 or 15? If it isn't his kid and they get divorced does he lose visitation/custody? He's loved the kid as his own for 5 years.
Let's suppose he does test the kid and kids Y chromosome isn't his. Does he lose custody? Does he stop loving him? Best case scenario is he tests the kid and it is his own DNA. But, would you be willing to take that risk if you were in his position?
If you feel the need to do a DNA test to see if your child is really yours, your marriage is done.

I think most guys would want to know the truth, and then deal with it the best way you can. You're right, he's loved and raised this kid for 5 years. This is not easy, but I would want to know if I was in his shoes. And I think nearly every guy would want to know the truth

 

[XLIX]

I think most guys would want to know the truth, and then deal with it the best way you can. You're right, he's loved and raised this kid for 5 years. This is not easy, but I would want to know if I was in his shoes. And I think nearly every guy would want to know the truth

+1 +1 +1

Most guys would want to know, one way or another.

And something that hasn't been mentioned here enough but was touched on above by PFinPhilly, most children would want to know. OK, right now they're too young to fully understand but they'll be adults one day soon. I have found as I grow older, 10 years isn't as long as it used to be.

 

[One-If-By-Sea]

And I think nearly every guy would want to know the truth

This is not true. Eventually maybe for the kids sake, but most fathers would have the kids best interest at heart and raise the child.

 

[BennyBledsoe]

But in the end, it's really up to the four parents involved. And one day, it'll be up to those kids and Vrabel's kids.

 

[Ross12]

This is not true. Eventually maybe for the kids sake, but most fathers would have the kids best interest at heart and raise the child.

Right. A lot of projection of one’s own personal beliefs and values onto other people they don’t know at all going on. We have zero idea what the relationship the Russini family has in relation to their children.

 

[Sect140]

Whitlock isn't wrong to speculate that one of both of Russini's kids might be Vrabel's

Russini's husband needs to test those kids paternity

As are a lot of other people, however those two are still idiots. LOL!

 

[Boogs]

This is not true.

It is true. Maybe you wouldn't want to know, but most guys would want to know if those boys are their biological kids

 

[ViperGTS]

This is not true. Eventually maybe for the kids sake, but most fathers would have the kids best interest at heart and raise the child.

A kids best interest is to know who his blood really is. If a dude is raising a kid that for years and finds out it isn't his then he would still see him as the Dad and continue along. At some point the kid himself might want to ask some questions.

You don't think the kid isn't going to know about his Mom and Vrabel? Of course he/they will and it will gnaw at them for a long time.

 

[One-If-By-Sea]

A kids best interest is to know who his blood really is. If a dude is raising a kid that for years and finds out it isn't his then he would still see him as the Dad and continue along. At some point the kid himself might want to ask some questions.

You don't think the kid isn't going to know about his Mom and Vrabel? Of course he/they will and it will gnaw at them for a long time.

Eventually sure. The kid is only 4 or 5 years old and you want to tell him that his Dad is a different person? No need to respond, this is too weird for me.

 

[n1997y]

It has numerous legal ramifications.

What? Inheritance?

Don’t tell me you’re landed gentry, worried about the estates some ancestor stole at swordpoint?

Anything else, make a will, name your heirs.

BFD.

It would be a nagging question that will sit and rot in the back of your mind for a lifetime if you don't know the answer.

Only if you let it. If you obsess about it it will. But if you live in the moment and focus on loving your family and cherishing the time you spend together you’ll be too busy doing well to be poisoned by your unhealthy obsession about where some bits of dna originated.

Honestly, I’d rather be with chosen family instead of blood relatives. Why would I choose mindrot worrying about something that’s really not important?

It also would open the door for 100 percent custody of the kids and a massive win in judgement. I'd divorce the **** out of her immediately. A one time thing could be discussed but this was more, much more than that.

Yeah, here’s the honest to god truth. It’s just a way to assert your dominance.

 

[TommyD4207]

Unless they both conspired to have someone murdered, it's time for the media to move along. Release all your info now or let it go. They truly are trying to piece things together while hurting these families beyond repair at this point. They don't care though. And others don't care either.

This is the hilarious thing.
Nobody actually cares. The writers don't care, the NFL doesn't care, the owners don't care, and the performative posters here sure as **** don't care.

The only people who actually care are the involved families.

The writers don't care - what they DO care about is clicks and ad revenue, and the longer they can milk this for content, they will. Youtube Dramatubers have been doing this for years.

The NFL sure as **** doesn't care - the more attention that's *not* put on their players/owners committing actual crimes, or that the NFL is complicit in ruining people's lives and shortening lifespans, while continuing to be as cheap as possible when it comes to giving these players health insurance, or paying for full-time referees, is something they'd rather people not pay attention to.

 

[DarrylS]

There is a body of work out there referring to "psychological parent" with legal and psychological ramifications.
Basicly a child is inevitably and deeply harmed by separation from a primary caregiver who has cared for, nurtured and loved the child for a lengthy period of time. Parental bonds are created, the disruption of which can be confusing and have long term implications. 22 states recognize the concept of "psychological parent" that can impact custody issues.
If Vrabel is the parent and then have the father leave can have long range psychological effects due to the disruption (perception of abandonment) by a caring adult without the child understanding why.
How would you begin to explain any of this to a 5 year old??
This whole family dynamic is a mess and needs to be sorted with professional guidance, but understanding this situation is difficult as we may never know all the issues and dynamics of this affair, rightfully so.

 

[n1997y]

Finally, a good summation of why some folks insist on still fanning the flames. They just want to see Vrabel in hell, and they’re taking personal responsibility for making sure he’s there…

 

[Patsfanin Philly]

Finally, a good summation of why some folks insist on still fanning the flames. They just want to see Vrabel in hell, and they’re taking personal responsibility for making sure he’s there…

The Patriot hatred which simmered for 20 years and was schadenfreude during a few years of down performance is back in force after a run to the super Bowl.

 

[n1997y]

The Patriot hatred which simmered for 20 years and was schadenfreude during a few years of down performance is back in force after a run to the super Bowl.

Yep. We weren’t down at the bottom of the standings and up at the top of the draft order long enough.