What was O'Brien supposed to tell the kid I'm leaving for a job nobody has offered me? If you're a football coach you ultimate goal is obviously the NFL you don't pass on that and anyone should understand that.
I guess he could go around and tell his recruits just so you know if the NFL offers me a head coaching job. I think 99% of college coaches would have to do the same.
O'Brien did what was right for the program he worked for his decision was made after the fact.
Again, I understand that BOB wanted to get back into the NFL. I don't fault him for that.
But I do think he should be honest with that recruit who asked him just a few days ago about his future. If he said he's not sure, fine. But when you tell someone you're going to be there, that you'll be there when the kid gets there, that's just a flat-out lie. And quite frankly, I have no idea why I have to even explain such an obvious thing.
And while there are a lot of strange things in the NCAA, one of them is definitely how a coach can move around but a recruit has to take a year off of his eligibility if he wants to do the same.
You don't have to tell the whole truth, I get that. But you shouldn't lie. He could tell the recruit he interviewed and he hasn't been offered the job. He could say he isn't seriously thinking about it. But when you say you are going to be there, then you're not, that crosses the line. If you give your word to someone, then you go back on it, that's not right.
And I think it goes a step further than that when you pull something like that in football. As the head coach, you ask your guys to sacrifice for the greater good, for the team, for each other. Then the head coach skips town while lying about it. If you're going to play for that guy, are you really going to buy into that program all the way?
Maybe. I mean Nick Saban left the Dolphins to build a powerhouse program in Alabama only two weeks after saying, "I guess I have to say it. I'm not going to be the Alabama coach."
So maybe BOB will be successful in Houston. Maybe not. But I would be very disappointed to find out that he lied to a young teenager. Part of being an adult is dealing with the tough situations. So is part of being a football coach. This would be a failure in both cases.