I got a BS non-answer from Directv and followed that up with an angry reply since it was clear they never even really read my first email and had sent a canned blackout related response.
Here's part of a better, more in depth response I got to that from DirecTV:
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"Unfortunately, we can't predict or control the programming selection a particular channel chooses to air or blackout. While we continually work with our programming partners to improve your television entertainment experience, it helps us all if you also forward your feedback to the network. You can reach FSN New England at:"
FSN New England
10 Tower Office Park
Woburn, MA 01801
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So after emailing Fox, Directv and The Pats, I finally have an answer that pins the responsibility for this at the hands of FSN New England.
I suggest anyone who, like me, is an out of market area fan, write to FSN at the address above and complain. My opinion is that some yahoo at FSN who doesn't know jack probably made this decision without thinking it through.
Lets tell them what we think.