For all those people saying Kraft should take nothing more than a low draft pick and no games lost for Brady... here is what I think happens if we try that.
The NFL says "no way we can't look that bad". Brady goes to court and wins and does not miss any games. The NFL stands by its punishment for the picks and the fine and now Goddell who will be commish for 3 more years at the least will have no issue doing whatever he can to punish the Patriots and make them look bad because they made him look foolish.
Someone explain to me why that won't happen if the Pats try to demand too much back? It is unfair yes but sometimes you must take a step back and make the decision in your best self interest than an emotional one that leads to worse consequences down the line and now.
Here is my completely unemotional and rational reply to your suggestion:
F.ck That!