Again, Favre and Sterger were not dating. Both have said they were not in a relationship. Therefore that analogy is irrelevant.
First, as pointed out previously, they were not in a relationship. I think there are plenty of shades of gray between perfect strangers and being in a relationship. At any given time there are at least dozens, if not hundreds of women that you, I, or anyone else here knows well enough to have a conversation with but at the same time are not in a relationship with; not sure why you paint it as an either/or black or white situation: stranger or relationship with no in between. I don't know about you or anyone else, but I'm not sexting any of those people I know in that gray area - especially if they are co-workers, clients, customers or vendors of mine.
Nobody is saying she is pure as the driven snow, I don't know why you would imply that. If she was joking around and Favre misunderstood, then why haven't one or the other said that this was the case, and that's what happened? Is it okay to do or say anything to a co-worker if they get a boob job or dress provocatively where you work?
This isn't about defending Sterger, that has nothing to do with it; it's about poor decision making by Favre and a subsequent hypocritical coverup by the NFL.
True, nobody knows for sure except those two. But consider this: if she was in it for the money, why didn't she sue? Why hasn't she done any tell-all interviews for a fee? Remember it was Deadspin, not her that broke the story - and that she was allegedly looking for a suspension and admission of guilt, not a payoff.