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CLICK HERE to Register for a free account and login for a smoother ad-free experience. It's easy, and only takes a few moments.Speak for yourself. I most certainly do not want to live in a society (whether called "utopia" or not) where this type of activity is accepted and tolerated as just another healthy lifestyle choice. And for the record, I'm referring exclusively to the "please gangbang my wife" aspect, not the foot thing.
1) We're not exactly talking about the privacy of a couple's bedroom in this case, are we?
2) I have no problem passing judgement on a disgusting, deviant and perverse activity such as a guy openly soliciting for a group of men to gang bang his wife (while, presumably, he participates too). And if you see my passing judgment as a worse act than a guy trying to have "all 3 holes" of his wife violated, then you've got some really backwards morals.
1) We're not exactly talking about the privacy of a couple's bedroom in this case, are we?
2) I have no problem passing judgement on a disgusting, deviant and perverse activity such as a guy openly soliciting for a group of men to gang bang his wife (while, presumably, he participates too). And if you see my passing judgment as a worse act than a guy trying to have "all 3 holes" of his wife violated, then you've got some really backwards morals.
The problem here isn't with Rex. If you are not intimate with a person, why would their bedroom choices change the way you think about them? Most people are WAY too hung up on other peoples' sexuality and sexual values. That type of judgement is usually rooted in deep insecurities.
Oh, whatever. Rex even told his locker room he was embarrassed, Of course we'd all love to live in a utopia where none of this matters, but we don't. And I'm pretty sure you don't have the sage insider view into everyone's insecurities.
Btw, how do you know that Michelle Ryan's "deep rooted insecurities" haven't lead her to become a willing participant in this stuff?[
All I can say is that if you find people laughing about this offensive, you're the one surpressing your feelings. No one is wishing harm on them... it's called laughing at an embarassing situation. Those of you on your high and mighty rants should look in the mirror and ask yourselves why you care about someone laughing at this sitituation. These are adults who have put themselves out there and are not victims at all.
I'm drawn to this thread because I find humor in this. Why is there a need for some to defend the humor? Aren't there any other threads that you can spend your time preaching in? Why are you drawn to this?
2) I have no problem passing judgement on a disgusting, deviant and perverse activity such as a guy openly soliciting for a group of men to gang bang his wife (while, presumably, he participates too). And if you see my passing judgment as a worse act than a guy trying to have "all 3 holes" of his wife violated, then you've got some really backwards morals.
I do believe that genuine scorn towards someone for their bedroom activities is most often rooted in insecurities. I'm sure there are other causes, first among them is that it is taught.
I believe that "swinger" behavior is most often the result of a libido distilled through an individual's personality. There would certainly be cases where it is the result of insecurities, but I sincerely doubt that is the norm. In my case, it is the exact opposite. I believe that it is my own insecurities and hangups that make swinging unappealling to me.
So that's your tact now? Try and throw it on me. I never said anything bad about homosexual people. Pull it up. I referred to some people as possible closet homos. Sorry bud but that's hardly homophobic. Nice try though. Post where I made a homophobic statement moron. I never made a negative statement against anyone gay. Pull it up.
Because you aren't very smart, here's how it's defined.
Homophobia | Define Homophobia at Dictionary.com
I believe the fact that I don't really want to sleep with anyone else beside my husband that makes me totally uninterested in swinging. I have no desire to go around banging people randomly and I would never have any desire whatsoever to be gang-banged. That doesn't make me "insecure" with hang ups at all.
You sound like your saying in order to be secure and without any sexual hangups, you should find swinging appealing! Give me a BREAK.
Speak for yourself. I most certainly do not want to live in a society (whether called "utopia" or not) where this type of activity is accepted and tolerated as just another healthy lifestyle choice. And for the record, I'm referring exclusively to the "please gangbang my wife" aspect, not the foot thing.
There would certainly be cases where it is the result of insecurities, but I sincerely doubt that is the norm. In my case, it is the exact opposite.
I read this, then looked at your screen name, and almost got the wrong idea.
If you don't want people talking about your fetishes DON'T POST IT ON THE INTERNET!
Speak for yourself. I most certainly do not want to live in a society (whether called "utopia" or not) where this type of activity is accepted and tolerated as just another healthy lifestyle choice. And for the record, I'm referring exclusively to the "please gangbang my wife" aspect, not the foot thing.
I don't believe that makes you insecure at all. It was the "thinking less about people" that is usually rooted in insecurity There is nothing wrong with monogamy, and I never suggested that monogamy was rooted in insecurity. I have tremendous respect for people who remain true to their mates, esepcially in the face of ample opportunity. My caveat that is if you are in a monogomas relationship, cheating behind one's partners back is an aweful act.
You were the one who suggested that someone's insecurities would drive them to multiple partners. I was just using myself as a counter example. I think this misunderstanding clearly illustrates our differences in perspective.