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strngplyr · 05-10-2012, 10:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patjew

Hi Everyone.

If you could hear this post, you would know that I am crying my eyes out as I write this.

I just want to thank everyone for their heartfelt messages and PMs. It means so much to me to know that you care.

Now I know why I posted this message.

Without getting into the gritty details, I can say that my beautiful wife's death came as a great shock. She was in alot of pain and did what she had to do. She never said bye to us.

I still love her.

Tomorrow is the funeral. I wrote her obituary from 4 to 7 AM. I hope I can deliver it well.

Again, thank you all. I have rough road ahead but I will do my best. I owe it to my three precious gifts. Thank god for my friends and family.

Sorry for making this about me.

I will answer the PMs as I can. Maybe this weekend. I really appreciate them.

Thank you all again. This really really hurts but we will get through it.

Don't know where to start, so incredibly sorry to hear this, Dave. Time can heal anything, just hang in there and be there for your kids.

Thoughts will be with you and your family, and for as much as it hurts you, I hope your wife found a better place.

Best wishes to your family.

-Jack

PatsFan37 · 05-10-2012, 10:35 PM

So sorry to hear your news. You were right to share it here if it helps you in any way. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

***Dragda*** · 05-10-2012, 10:35 PM

I will keep you in my prayers. My sympathy.

Urgent · 05-10-2012, 10:37 PM

I can't imagine that.
While I have also had my share of loss, I've always had my wife with me through life's joys and struggles.
You seem to carry faith, and I hope that faith buoys you through this time of struggle.

God watch over you.

j109 · 05-10-2012, 10:38 PM

Dave, Patsfan brother, your words just now were beautiful. Heartbreaking, heartfelt. Beyond the small bit of comfort I hope you may gather from your friends here on this site, I pray you also hang onto the strength you found to write these 3 sentences --

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patjew

I have rough road ahead but I will do my best. I owe it to my three precious gifts. Thank god for my friends and family.

-- my deepest condolences, friend.

Jim

patman12 · 05-10-2012, 10:42 PM

My thoughts and condolences are with you and your kids at this most difficult time.

***Zeus*** · 05-10-2012, 10:43 PM

Dave -

It is hard to imagine the heartbreak you must be feeling. I hope that, in time, you and your children will be able to find solace in the memories of better times. You have a big heart and I know that you will find the strength to persevere.

Heartfelt condolences for now. Wishing you and your children all the best in the days to come. You deserve nothing less.

Andy

EEasyA · 05-10-2012, 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patjew

Hi Everyone.

I don't know why I am posting this here but it feels right and Ian said it's OK. This place is kind of like another family to me.

My wife passed away on Tuesday night in Boston. She was 36. We have 3 kids, 14, 12, and 8 years old.

We're all very devastated, of course. But we're hanging in there and the kids have been amazing. I'm also lucky to have several sets of supportive relatives, friends, and colleagues. So we're going to work our way through this eventually.

I just wanted to let you all know.

Dave

Sorry for the Loss.

ZoisKing · 05-10-2012, 10:46 PM

You're a brave soul to expose yourself in such a way.

I hope that you're able to find the answers to the countless questions that will confront you.

I wish you the best.

***JoeyC*** · 05-10-2012, 10:49 PM

Dave , so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies. JoeyC

05-10-2012, 10:35 PM	#102
PatsFan37 Second Team and Threatening Starter's Job Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 1,474	Re: Some personal news So sorry to hear your news. You were right to share it here if it helps you in any way. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Ian likes this.

05-10-2012, 10:35 PM	#103
*Dragda* Yes, it's really me... Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 1,307	Re: Some personal news I will keep you in my prayers. My sympathy. Ian likes this.

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Urgent 2nd Team Getting Their First Start Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,773	Re: Some personal news I can't imagine that. While I have also had my share of loss, I've always had my wife with me through life's joys and struggles. You seem to carry faith, and I hope that faith buoys you through this time of struggle. God watch over you. Ian likes this. __________________ "Your father was a truck driver, Ray?" - Trombley

05-10-2012, 10:42 PM	#106
patman12 On The Game Day Roster Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 356	Re: Some personal news My thoughts and condolences are with you and your kids at this most difficult time. Ian likes this.

05-10-2012, 10:43 PM	#107
*Zeus* PatsFans.com Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 599	Re: Some personal news Dave - It is hard to imagine the heartbreak you must be feeling. I hope that, in time, you and your children will be able to find solace in the memories of better times. You have a big heart and I know that you will find the strength to persevere. Heartfelt condolences for now. Wishing you and your children all the best in the days to come. You deserve nothing less. Andy Ian and pherein like this. __________________ "And the anger and the yearning, like fever in my veins, set the fire burning ..." WZ Last edited by Zeus; 05-10-2012 at 10:43 PM.

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ZoisKing On The Game Day Roster Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Athens GA, here I come! Posts: 339	Re: Some personal news You're a brave soul to expose yourself in such a way. I hope that you're able to find the answers to the countless questions that will confront you. I wish you the best. Ian, Buchanty and mayoclinic like this.

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*JoeyC* Spirit of 76 Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Okanagan Valley Posts: 21 My Mood:	Re: Some personal news Dave , so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies. JoeyC Ian likes this.

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