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I am real old school and when I played LL and on teams at the local YMCA, many parents were not even present.. bringing up kids in a less mobile time(the 50's) we were a lot on our own. Later I coached LL and as the kids were always bugging me: Can I pitch?? Can I catch?? so I let them, the kids really liked that opportunity, the parents less so. Meanwhile other coaches were yelling at their players to wake up and pay attention, their parents loved that. Nothing like "good tight discipline" in Little League
As a grandparent run into a lot of friends grandkids who are overprogrammed and the intense involvement needed to remain "competitive" is concerning. I know a second grader who is out 3 nights a week in organized sports.. seems too much for that age. Also know a 13 year old who drags his parents all around the NE playing on hockey and baseball travel teams, he is a good athlete, but a terrible "sport".. probably not good enough to warrant the amount of time his parents put into the required travel.
Sports are supposed to be fun, a developmental diversion, doubt these kids are having a much fun as they say they are... I know their parents aren't.
As a grandparent run into a lot of friends grandkids who are overprogrammed and the intense involvement needed to remain "competitive" is concerning. I know a second grader who is out 3 nights a week in organized sports.. seems too much for that age. Also know a 13 year old who drags his parents all around the NE playing on hockey and baseball travel teams, he is a good athlete, but a terrible "sport".. probably not good enough to warrant the amount of time his parents put into the required travel.
Sports are supposed to be fun, a developmental diversion, doubt these kids are having a much fun as they say they are... I know their parents aren't.