Your misery is evident, and the happiness you claim is a lie, whether you admit it to yourself or not.
Admitting that I was weak and one of the ones corrupted by money is far from patting myself on the back. The fact that you interpreted it that way speaks volumes, but not as much as interpreting admitting fault as *****ing. Spoiled? For a time I was. But know this, nothing was ever handed to me and any spoiling was self inflicted.
For the early part of my career, I mostly only helped people that were close to me. At that time, I felt little need to help anyone I didn't know. Not only was I miserable and didn't even realize it, I wasn't a very good person. I'm not claiming to be a good man now, but I am trying to be. I've been maintaining IT operations for a couple of small nonprofits pro bono for 10+ years. Last year I started consulting pro bono for a trust that aids under-funded research projects in the child development and education fields. I've also begun the process of changing careers to one focused on early development and education. I realize all this pales in comparison to teaching a recreational activity on the side, even if you do get paid for it, but I am trying.
You can continue to take blind, wild shots at my character but I would prefer to get back to the original argument. The fact that only half of the NFL owners are self made proves my point. Most people from old money keep a very low profile, and few would ever enter something so public as owning an NFL team. New money is harder to hide, and offers no incentive to keeping a low profile.
The best among us aren't corrupted by money whether you acknowledge it or not.
Another point is that you can be happy without money. Try reading Eckart Tolle. He was miserable when successful and didn't become "happy" until he was homeless. His ideas on suffering and happiness are profound.