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CLICK HERE to Register for a free account and login for a smoother ad-free experience. It's easy, and only takes a few moments.Someone who molests a child is a bad personal regardless of whatever excuses you want to give.
I'm not. Molest a child and you should no longer be around children. No exceptions.Reasons and excuses are very different.
I'm interested in understanding, carefully and thoroughly, before attempting to influence public policy.
If you don't understand it is ridiculous to blame "surroundings" for what jerry Sandusky did to dozens of children, words fail me.
There may be a reason for someone becoming an abuser, but that doesn't mean that it is an excuse.
What they certainly need is mental help, to help break the cycle
So psychopaths aren't bad people, they only need mental help? What constitutes a bad person if every bad act is excused by "mental issues" or upbringing?
This is incorrect. I do not remember the exact percentage, and keep in mind many survivors do not come forward, and don't quote me but it's something like 90% of abusers have been abused themselves but only 10% of survivors go on to become abusers.
Assuming that 10% figure is significantly higher than the rate of child abusers in the general population, it could actually support the point you're quoting.
With due respect RC, is this really necessary? This isn't the type of thread that belongs in the football forum, even as OT.
Not saying it shouldn't be discussed, just preferably not here. It's disturbing and depressing from pretty much every angle. The Pub Forum would be a better place for it.All I can say is Jerry Sandusky's scandal was definitely discussed a lot back when it happened. Not to justify it, but it happened. And it cost Penn State nearly a quarter billion dollars and an incalculable amount of respect.
This is incorrect. I do not remember the exact percentage, and keep in mind many survivors do not come forward, and don't quote me but it's something like 90% of abusers have been abused themselves but only 10% of survivors go on to become abusers.
I don't even know what a "bad person" is in this context. Everyone who commits some kind of crime is a combination of brain matter they were born with and life circumstances that shaped that brain matter. For us to imply that sexual predators simply lack some kind of moral grounding, or just aren't trying hard enough to be "good people", is a bizarre position to take. The ones who have come forward to speak openly about what its like have said it is like a horrific itch that is as predictable to them as the sun coming up in the morning. How would we even begin to measure how hard someone is trying, or if they are a "good person" or a "bad person" under those circumstances?
I'm not. Molest a child and you should no longer be around children. No exceptions.
When did I say dint treat them?The topic of this off-topic thread is Jeffrey Sandusky. The statistics about victims of child molestation being far more likely to molest children than members of the general population, which began this page-long comment chain, pertain to him, not Jerry.
Do you work for my HMO? You're stamping this big red "Bad Person" label on every post like its some way to deny a costly medical procedure.
"I'm sorry sir, you have been denied coverage to get mental help, to help break the cycle... we've determined you are a pre-existing Bad Person, and Bad People are ineligible to receive any mental health treatment."
Already being a child molester is actually a very good reason for someone to receive treatment aimed at stopping them from molesting children.
Life in prison may be a harsher and more appropriate penalty.I don't even think you should be on this Earth. There is no curing that. Put them down like the animals they are. They do the planet no good.
Life in prison may be a harsher and more appropriate penalty.
or throw them in Gen Pop and let the animals takecare of themIf it was that harsh, we would hear more about them offing themselves in prison. Sadly, many of them get moved to solitary or restrictive housing, like his dad did, when they get in.