Kraft is most likely out of touch with his feelings and desires. Being rich does not make him emotionally healthy (the nerd label). There is something about these women at the spa that certain men find attractive (or there would not be so many spas). Young, petite, submissive, long hair, small shoulders, etc. Most Instagram models different from young Asian women. Just a fact. Where Kraft and the others caught in this sting went wrong is they should understand their attraction, accept it, and find a willing, age appropriate partner that matches their attraction. They can find that woman if they spend a bit of money. I am sure they would spend the money if they understood their feelings/attraction. They are trapped in a fantasy that takes them back to the "rub and tug" because they can't express their feelings and act in a mature fashion. This type of behavior is labelled many different ways in our society, and you can see a lot of the labels in this thread.