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I acknowledge your point but I don't agree with it. If they have any level of intelligence and maturity whatsoever, then they should know, coming from the gutter, whatever opportunity presented to them is a gift and they should grab it, and run with it as fast as they can. Perhaps that's an overly simplistic view and I acknowledge there are a great many factors in play, I'm just sick of making excuses for people because I never did for myself.That would be nice, yet most of them haven't had the privilege of an upbringing that developed that in them. So they haven't. We can be frustrated about it all we want, but demanding that they be that mature is like demanding a paraplegic to get up out of the wheelchair and walk up the steps. The capability just isn't there at that time.
I've always held myself accountable, for better or worse. And believe me, I know I've made many boneheaded decisions. Learning from them is the key.