01-24-2011, 12:05 PM
On The Game Day Roster
Join Date: Nov 2007
Re: The true character of the Jets Captain!
FOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL STAGES OF
THE BATTERED WOMAN SYNDROME
The wife refuses to admit--even to herself--that she has been beaten or that there is a "problem" with her marriage. She may call each incident an "accident". She offers excuses for her husband's violence and each time firmly believes it will never happen again.
She now acknowledges there is a problem, but considers herself responsible for it. She "deserves" to be beaten, she feels, because she has defects in her character and is not living up to her husband's expectations.
The woman no longer assumes responsibility for her husband's abusive treatment, recognizing that no one "deserves" to be beaten. She is still committed to her marriage, though, and stays with her husband, hoping they can work things out.
Accepting the fact that her husband will not, or can not, stop his violent behavior, the battered woman decides she will no longer submit to it and starts a new life.
(next year, Same Jet time, same jet channel: "Fire Ryan, he can't win the big one")