Punk @ss move

So I just went through a sh!tty ass divorce. Nope. I am now living in a world in which I get to see me kids partially during the week. I went from everyday to three or four days. It sucks.

During the divorce stuff I heavily relied on Patsfans for a distraction. Thank God for this site. It provided me a wonderful relief and distraction from what was going on in my real world.

I can't tell you how many times I would engage in a thread and feel relief.

But what did I do today?? I f'ing took a shot at a member who had provided much of that relief.

So this is my "please forgive me " post. @Tunescribe and @Joker have not only blindly provided content that distracted me from my day to day craziness but also PM'd me to make sure that I was on the right track.

@Tunescribe , I truly apologize to you for my actions today. I didn't agree with your tone but you deserved a much better response from me especially.

I'm sorry.

 

Been there custody court sucks
If you were in PA I'd give you my attorneys Info she is a is Pitbull in a skirt.

 

Anyone can make an idiot mistake, it takes a man to own it. Good on ya.
From my limited exposure to him I would hazard a guess The Tuneman has a reasonably thick hide. I don't have to guess when it comes to his great sense of humor so I'm doubting he will be burning your house down anytime soon. Unless of course you say something positive about the Jete in which case I, for one, will miss you man.

 

Well, let's have this be a "Mea Culpa" thread. I too would like to apologize to Tunescribe, I think from the same thread that Tony's referencing. And I extend that apology to all others who are annoyed by my posting style.

Tunescribe's comments to me on an earlier thread made me think that perhaps I have been bugging the crap out of this board. And if that's the case, I've got to rethink my involvement here to a much less active role.

Tony, let me say this, though... I believe you are way overestimating your negativity on that thread. You are a tremendous poster here, and this board is enhanced by your presence, as it is by Tunescribe's.

I'm sorry, man, for all you're going through, and am including you in my prayers. All the best, and God bless.

 

No way have you had a negative impact here. I love your stuff.

And your responses between you and Tune were just that. I had no business publically going after Tune. The guy is a great guy as are you.

Anyway my fault.

 

By a miracle I came out of mine childless and mostly unscathed.

Never. Again.

 

So...does that mean there'll be no next time or next time there will be children and you will be thoroughly scathed?

 

No need to apologize.



Sorry to hear about the divorce though. I hope you end up coming out of it okay on the other side. May take some time though.

 

OK, maybe something here will be more to your liking:

 

It may feel like you're being robbed of seeing your children as much as you are used to, but in the end the time you do spend with them may be much more meaningful now that you are out of an unhappy marriage. Hang in there and concentrate your energy on being their dad that loves them unconditionally. Time is your friend.

 

Sorry, Tony. Went through the custody battle myself a few years back. Very stressful. Nothing like feeling like less than an equal parent when a judge grants you 20% visitation timeshare. Thankfully, through mediation we slowly got to 50/50 and the tension ratcheted down greatly.

As for Tune, eff him. Kidding, Tune.

Regards,
Chris

 

Former. I have too much to lose now, and life is good!

 

Yeah, I want to apologise to Tunescribe too. No reason, just because everyone else is and I'm Canadian. Sorry.

 

Thanks for the clarification. Pleased to hear life is good.
Mine certainly worked out much better than I had any right to expect.
It's nice when things come together that way.

@Tony I wish you nothing but well going forward. They're only young for such a short while, quantity of time around them is nowhere near as important as quality of time with them. Don't blink, before you know it they'll have kids of their own.

 

Fine, but Canadian apologies are worth only 76 percent of an American apology. So if you apologize twice you'll be covered (with a bit left over for next time).

 

I’ve been away and missed what Tony did. Now I'm curious. If I know Tony, it probably wasn’t half as bad as a lot that goes on here.

Sorry about the divorce. It sucks.

 

Good kittens er eh kids post here...

(Oh shoot I just made Tunescribe mad...)

 

No, you corrected yourself so all is good.

 

yeah...well, sorry for your loss Tony.

reminds me of the time I went before the judge in a divorce proceeding. The judge asks me "where's your wife?'. I fidgeted around a bit before I haltingly replied..."she died of lead poisoning, your honor". The judge looked up incredulously and and said "lead poisoning???". I replied quietly.... yes, your honor....six in the back of the head......

fortunately the judge was also the justice of the peace that married us years earlier and he declared "case dismissed!! I told you not to marry that witch"....life goes on. I have a cat now.

 

How about apologising to all of us for Justin Trudeau?