I don't think this is about the individual (AB or anyone else), but the process of placing a player in the EL over civil allegations. Many people have said this would be a terrible precedent for the NFL to set and I for one agree, nvm about using people's judgments as a reason (half the league would be on the EL).
Look at what NFL is doing about 2 Pats that actually have criminal charges filed against them, and for which police investigations have been conducted (Kraft and Chung), absolutely nothing!
How can the league justify treating these two situations so differently, especially when it has never been done before. Regardless of how you feel about AB, that would be total BS.