Serious question folks since its a slow down period (relatively speaking) and the hottest thread right now is a damn Brady v Manning rehash. I live/work here in San Francisco and my office's secretary is the cousin of a prominent 49er defensive player. She is willing to bring me to the friends and family section when the Patriots are in town but she not only wants me to hide my Bostonian heritage but also want me to actually wear SF apparel and not cheer for the Patriots either. Her reasoning is that the other players have a policy of absolutely refusing to bring fans of the visiting team into the area and some of these wives really get pissed big time. How can I cope with that to sit there on my hands just to save 150 bucks?