We're really confusing two things here, conflating supposed issues about "class" with issues about a man's worth as a person.
There is very little doubt that LT is a very positive community force and does an awful lot of good for people in the community even when the cameras are off. You can't take any of that away from him, and in the final analysis, if he makes one sick kid feel better even for 30 seconds it's more important about who he as a person and what he's about than any stupid post-game comments.
Several players do these things too (but not nearly enough), and perhaps you can questions LT's motives -- whether he's cultivating an image or truly has philanthropy in his heart. Who knows. You could say the same about Warrick Dunn, I supppose, but that doesn't take away the fact that he's used his celebrity to make hundreds or thousands of people feel better who otherwise wouldn't have. And you can't take that away from Tomlinson either. You just can't.
He's a good guy who said a few sore loser dumb things, took the ridiculous step of calling out an opponent's coach even though he has no idea what he's talking about, and is compounding the problem by not backing off. And I'll admit that the more he talks the more he looks a little off in the IQ department. But that's what this is and it's all that it is. It's not an indictment of the man himself or what he means or does.