Judge's personal life debated after gay ruling - Yahoo! News I could care less about this subject. I do not have to pick up the tab, for their weddings, so I am on record supporting gay marriage. Why should I stand in the way of someone's happiness. I also do dioubt that if I live to be 115, I will be invited to a gay wedding. I do feel that if the judge is gay, he should excuse himself from this case.