Patriot_in_NY
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FWIW the general public at least on twitter seems to not buy the pats explanation of 'deflator' word for someone losing weight and seem to be mocking patriots explanation.
I initially balked at it too. But as a "larger framed dude" myself, I find that I very rarely refer to myself as "FAT", and generally people are hesitant to call me FAT even if they want to insult me of make a dig at my weight. I generally do not refer to efforts to "not be fat" as going on a diet either (lots of negative connotations). While I would never use the term "deflate" to refer to any attempts to lose weight because it's not the world I live in, I can certainly understand two people who primarily interact over the preperation of footballs (inflating and deflating) might use those terms. I would likely use terms that are in my everyday life.
For me the "deflate, and get rid of the jacket" seals this as playful (but derogatory) interaction between the two. If he were to say "Hey fatty, get rid of the jacket" it would be an overtly mean thing to say, while saying "Deflate" instead lessens the sting (while still having the same message) and could easily be sold as "I was just teasing" if the person took offense. Likewise, referring to yourself as "deflator" wouldn't be totally out of the realm of possiblity in a text about weight loss, since the Patriots are already demonstrating a familiar usage in referrence to weight issues between these to.
Skinny people, or people that don't struggle with weight issues may have no ability to relate, but as a bigger dude myself (notice I didn't say fat), I totally understand and can appreciate people using euphmisms to discuss their weight or size.